Your Baby’s First Year — Seven to Nine Months

Your baby has made many strides in his physical and social development up to this point. There are many more changes he will be experiencing over the next several months. During the time period from seven months to ninth months your baby will start developing his language skills and motor skills much more quickly now.

By now your baby is most likely sitting unaided. He may now begin to try to scoot or pull himself to get to objects he wants. Soon your baby will be getting up on his knees and will begin to crawl. Once your baby learns he can get around he will quickly develop other skills such as pulling himself up to furniture and may even begin taking steps while holding onto furniture or while holding someone’s hands.

Your baby’s first tooth will most likely come in around the seventh month. Some babies will get their first teeth sooner than this, but on an average you can expect it now. Once your baby’s first tooth pops through, many more will come in quickly. With your baby’s new teeth and the fact that his digestive tract is more developed now, you can begin introducing new foods and different textures to your baby’s diet.

Until now your baby’s vision has been about 20/40 at best but has now developed to the point where his clarity and depth perception are fully developed. By eight months he will be able to recognize people and objects from across the room.

Your baby will finally begin understanding that he is a fully independent person. Because of this your baby may develop some separation anxiety while learning that mommy will come back when she leaves even for a minute. At this point in a baby’s development they will begin to test your authority by refusing to do what he is told to do. This is not a matter of defiance, but rather exploration. He is simply curious and cannot remember things for more than a few seconds at a time.

Your Baby’s First Year — Three to Six Months

During the first three months of your baby’s life she has gone through many changes but there are many more that will be happening over the next several months. Your baby will begin to develop more fine-tuned motor skills, verbal skills, and more over the next three months. During the first three months of your baby’s life she was adjusting to this new world and all of the sights, sounds, and smells that are new. Now your baby should be at a point where she has begun to settle into more of a routine.

During this time period you and your baby will start communicating more with each other. Your baby will respond to your body language as well as your speech. She will begin trying to mimic your facial expressions and the movement of your mouth. She will now begin to laugh out loud and may even squeal with excitement or delight while kicking her feet and giggling when happy or excited. Your baby will now start showing signs of enjoyment in activities such as bathing or games.

As she discovers how to use her body and make it do what she wants it to do, her motor skills will be improving and she will now start grasping at objects. Your baby will still have difficulty controlling her body well at this point, but she will be making more of an effort to learn. It will not take long for her to discover that she can roll over and will figure out how to roll back and forth. Soon she will be able to control her muscles well enough to balance herself and sit up.

An infant’s vision and hearing are developing more during this time period as well. The eye muscles have developed more fully and your baby should be able to follow movements with her eyes and is able to focus on small objects now too. Sounds are becoming more familiar to her as well, and she may turn towards specific sounds. By now your baby is learning the sounds of family member’s voices.

Shopping for Your Baby’s First Costume

There are so many kids costumes for every occasion now, that parents, especially first-time ones, or those who can finally choose for a boy or girl after all those years of having to choose for only one sex or the other, can go overboard. Some of the costumes that can be purchased can cost as much or more than a designer outfit.

This can be very tempting, but you don’t have to spend that much to make your little bundle of joy look cute. Remember, he or she will probably only get one wear out of it. On this same subject, purchase the costume as close to the holiday as you can while leaving yourself enough time to get one before they run out. This way, you won’t have to worry about Precious growing out of the costume before she even had a chance to wear it the first time.

When shopping for your baby’s first costume, keep a few things in mind, such as the weather at the time the costume will be worn, your child’s age and size, and your child’s temperament. Kids costumes can be darling, with frills, lace, buttons, bows, and everything else, but if your child does not like wearing these or ordinary outfits, it isn’t going to be any different on a costume.

Simple kids costumes such as bumblebee or bunny ones are perfect for children between the ages of newborn to six months. These are always precious; especially when they have a hood part that fits snugly but comfortably around the face. The good thing about these types of kids costumes also is that frequently they come in one piece, so you don’t have to worry about trying to fit a headband with bunny ears or bumblebee antennae on a little head or attaching wings or a cotton tail to a squirmy back or bottom.

All About Diaper Services

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Ever heard of diaper services? If you’re a first-time parent, probably not. A diaper service will come to your house, deliver fresh cloth diapers, and take away all your used cloth diapers. They’ll then clean them at a facility and bring them back. Depending on what disposable diapers you use, it may even be more cost-effective than disposables. It’s a much more environmentally friendly way to handle diaper changes, but is a diaper service right for you?

Pros of a diaper service:

-Cloth diapers are much more environmentally friendly than disposable diapers, and cleaning them at a facility uses less resources than a home washing machine.
-Since your diapers are delivered, there’s no need to constantly run out to the store.
-You won’t be faced with the unpleasant task of cleaning cloth diapers.
-Potty training is much easier because it’s more unpleasant for a child to sit in wet cloth than a wet disposable diaper.
-There’s less of a chance for diaper rash since wet cotton still allows the skin to breathe, unlike disposable diapers.
-Some diaper services offer combination cloth-disposable combination packages, in which the service will also take your used disposable diapers and deliver them to a compost pile.
-No increased garbage fees because of all your disposable diapers.

Cons of a diaper service:
-It’s exceedingly difficult to travel with cloth diapers.
-Storage may be an issue, two or more diaper pails may be needed since delivery only comes once a week.
-Depending on which service or disposable diaper you choose, it can be more expensive than disposables.
-Cloth diapers are more likely to leak than disposables.
-Cloth diapers are terrible for loose or watery bowel movements.
-Diaper pins are inconvenient and easily misplaced.
-You must remember to put your diapers out every week.
-There’s more planning involved as you must guesstimate which amount of diapers is best for your child.

All About Baby Naps

Are you concerned about your baby’s sleep habits? Hopefully this list of baby nap facts will ease your worries.

1.) Any nap is better than no nap at all. Even if your baby will only fall asleep in her car seat, don’t sweat it too much. Whenever possible, shoot for a nice long nap in the crib, because it’s much more restorative. At the end of the day, though, just be thankful for any nap time you got.
2.) Babies need at least 45 minutes of sleep per nap. Otherwise, they won’t be refreshed at all. However, if your baby only sleeps for 45 minutes, don’t sweat it. Some babies only need two 45-minute naps a day.
3.) Your baby needs sleep, but he will sleep when he’s tired. Don’t try to force naps too hard. Yes, your baby needs sleep, but don’t worry too much about strict scheduling. You and your baby will fall into your own rhythm in time. Don’t force your baby to stay awake when his eyelids are fluttering, either.
4.) Find your own routine. Does your baby sleep best when you read “Goodnight Moon?” Does she sleep best to a lullaby CD or to your own singing? Do you have to pat her, rock her, or gently move the crib to get her to sleep? You’ll find lots of little tricks along the way to help her sleep. If something isn’t working, try something else. Don’t be discouraged. Eventually, you’ll work out a routine that works for both of you.
5.) Don’t do swing or rocker naps all the time. Standby motionless sleep works the best over constant naps in a moving swing.
6.) Adjust your baby’s schedule according to your own. If your baby sleeps through lunch and dinner, wake him earlier in the day so he’ll be tired sooner. If your baby is going to sleep too early, wake him later.

How to Choose Your Baby’s Doctor

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Part of caring for your baby is regular check-ups to the pediatrician. But how do you choose the perfect doctor for you and your baby? Consider these tips:

- Start early. Ideally, you will have a pediatrician picked out before you have your baby. Start looking for a doctor before you have your baby. Doctors get to know their patients, and many parents find it comforting when their pediatricians know their child’s history.

- Ask for recommendations. Ask friends or family members who have recently had children if they can recommend a good pediatrician. At the same time, ask if there is anyone they would not recommend. Lots of parents find out through trial and error whether a doctor is a good fit or not.

- Consider gender. Assess whether or not you would be more comfortable visiting a specific gender. Some moms just feel more comfortable with a female pediatrician than with a male. This is certainly nothing to be ashamed of.

- Interview your potential pediatrician. It’s important that you and your pediatrician have the same views on important childcare issues such as breastfeeding, immunizations, and the use of antibiotics. For example, if you would like to bottle feed, make sure you visit a doctor who supports that choice.

- Check your insurance. Before you get too far into the process, make sure the doctors you are looking at are covered under your insurance. Some insurance carriers will only cover costs associated with doctors in their network.

- Rely on your instincts. Even if a doctor is a perfectly competent medical doctor, you may not feel like he or she is a good fit or you may not feel a rapport with him or her. If this is the case, keep looking. The perfect pediatrician is out there!